quotes

“Everything has its beauty, but not everyone sees it” by Confucius

This is a quote that is very relevant in our life. we know that beauty is very subjective and its also versatile. to me the word 'ugly' doesn't exist in my dictionary but less attractive is. and how is that? well...it is to my opinion that everyone is born beautiful we in fact being created by God as perfect as it possibly be even when born with defects, we are still beautiful. probably by know you'd know that i'm not just talking about superficial physic but also the inner beauty.

its is also in my experience...personal experience that beauty is not just physical its also in the state of mind, our emotions, and even in our health wouldn't you agree?

1st as example;
during my working days my colleague we name her ms.X she is one of our best looking staff, at least physically. she have this exotic look even as a Malay, i'm not sure if she is mixed though but she does have eyes somewhat like Milla Jovovich, she's also slander and tall. Anyone who sees her would think that she is a beautiful and attractive girl. But...once you get to know her you'll start to think otherwise as she have a nasty temper, and she can easily get grumpy , cranky and unhappy. when she is in one of those moods you can see in her face that she has lost that 'glow'. the 'glow' that made her look radiant and perky hence enhancing her natural beauty. She totally lost that glow. her skin will look dull and dark instantly regardless of how many layers of foundations she put on. have you ever experience such thing? this is very true. i've seen this many many time

2nd example:
the closest example is my own parents. My mom is 50+, my dad is 60 and they looks nothing their age in fact they look 8-10 years younger than their age! and they didn't even use any botox or what ever they have to prevent aging and my mom don't even use skincare or at least not religiously. her secret was just being happy inside out (feel and be happy) and have a good health then you should radiate from within naturally and it will show!

3rd example:
i have met several beautiful and gorgeous ladies...very desirable men would drool women will envy their looks & physics when they see them...from far, but up close they are as hideous as anyone could ever imagine!....mmm then again perhaps the shallow guys wouldn't mind them...and why do i say this? its simply because they have lack of self respect nor to others, mean to the people around them, stuck-up so to speak...which actually somehow gradually reflects to their physics...

i know a who is in this category. she is actually a very beautiful girl but she is not desirable to anyone who knows her which made her kindda lonely. there was this incident where she had a breakdown she vent out all of her frustrations and hope etc..etc... and it turns out that she was mean because she wanted to cover her imperfections...go figure...

and my brother married a superficially beautiful girl but turned ugly as she have an unstable emotions,

example 4:

so what does this tells you? its simply happiness + meditations + health = beauty. correct?

this would essentially means that inner beauty is the utmost importance in being beautiful! inner beauty means having good health, emotionally stable and optimistic

coming back to the quote " everyone has its beauty but not every one sees it" its all very true literally everyone has its beauty but one need to choose to see it in order to really see it!

does that makes any sense to you?.....perhaps i was just blabbering away....